This isn’t anything too new, except today I didn’t want to. I was perfectly fine with my messy bun afro puff on top of my head but I felt like crap.. so I decided to spend the 10 minutes straightening my hair. That’s all it took was 10 minutes. That 10 minutes changed my whole mind set and reframed my day. I’m still wearing a hoodie and leggings so I am in now way dressed up but taking that extra 10 minutes changed everything. Now all of a sudden I feel sexy in a hoodie! That’s all it took for … Continue reading Today I straightened my hair…
Ever since starting the Humira injection a few months ago for my autoimmune diseases, it has given me back parts of my life that I never knew existed. I have more energy and less pain and this has led me … Continue reading Self Love And Body Positivity.
Today was one for lessons and experiences, I will say that. I also will say that if I wasn’t strong in my sobriety, today could have been enough to break me and take everything from me that I have worked … Continue reading Today I Cleaned A Crack House…
How do you know when you’re wasting your time and energy with someone? Whether it be a friendship or a relationship. I feel like I should know the answer, I always tell you guys that I know something about a … Continue reading Shifting Focus Back To Self, Always. Necessary And Crucial!
This must be what it feels like when your soul is tired. I thought I had been there already but now I know that I am really there. It happened because there was a spark and a connection and reciprocation … Continue reading cathartic verbiage.
I am slowly meeting men and getting to know them. I am focusing more on connection and building friendships first. I am absolutely not trying to rush into another mistake. I think so many people rush into relationships for the … Continue reading Don’t Ever Settle, There’s No Reason To.
How many of us keep ourselves in a perpetual place of self torture? Are you stuck in a relationship that is toxic because you can’t let go? Are you being taken advantage of by a family member but can’t set … Continue reading Stop Living In Perpetual Hell.
During this journey of finding myself and growing I have read so much about different things and have dabbled in the twin flame and relationships realm of information and I guess I use that as a guide in a way. … Continue reading Love Can Find Me. I’m Done Looking.
I totally understand the drive and motivation to find love and somebody to share your life with, I do! As a libra, I am not meant to be alone… but also at this point in my life I am realizing … Continue reading Self-Love Rant.
Several times today on social media from various platforms, and different friends and acquaintances and people that I do not even know, a similar theme was arising. “I am nervous/scared that people will think (fill in the blank)…” …. “I … Continue reading Take the plunge! (with some sociological reference)